Woman posting Tucao said girlfriends married 4 colleagues only send 200 yuan red envelopes

4 people together send 200 yuan wedding red envelopes, more or less? Close to the year, it is a node where the "red bomb" flies. Send red envelopes to receive red packets have their own troubles. And many users Tucao, entangled red envelopes! It is necessary to take into account the human face, but also to take care of their own pockets, really "can not afford to hurt!"

Closed: 4 people together to send 200 yuan red envelopes

"I was speechless. When I got married, my four colleagues co-wrap 200 red envelopes." On the morning of the 7th, Changsha netizen @ Yiyi Yangliufeng said that the girlfriends were married and four well-connected colleagues came to the feast for 200 yuan. Red packets, the bride's face is green.

"My girlfriend married in the hotel, not to drink more than 1,600 yuan per table and vegetables, return is used for 40 yuan of Furong King." @ Yiyi Yang Liu Feng said that the red packets sent by colleagues just enough money.

@ Yiyi Yangliufeng has attracted many users to discuss. Top quotes from @yanghaitao888 said that in Changsha, ordinary colleagues package 200 yuan is the basic market. More users directly suggested that the bride add 50 dollars to them. Some people think that there is no need to care about sending more and less. "What if you invite them honestly and don't have red envelopes?" said netizen @ Happy Moore.

Send: More than 20 wedding banquets sent tens of thousands

When it comes to human faces, not only people who receive red packets have to give up, but they also have headaches to send red packets. Just beginning in 2013, Xiao Tang has already received four "red bombs." Xiao Tang worked as a public relations officer in a cultural company in Changsha and participated in the work for less than two years. He is a moonlight tribe with a monthly income of about 3,000 yuan.

"The girlfriends pack 1000, the classmates pack 500, two colleagues one 200." Small Tang Hao counted on the table, most of the salary has not yet imported pockets, have found a good place to go.

Xiao Tang made a calculation. Last year she took part in more than 20 wedding banquets. There are 200 gifts for every wedding party, and as many as 1,000. One year alone, there are tens of thousands of dollars in this expenditure. "It's my salary for more than three months." Xiao Tang said that every time he sends an envelope, he will be sent to a meat ache. But letting Tang tangled is not sending red envelopes, but how much money the red envelopes must be.

Glossary

The "Red Bomb" is commonly known as the wedding invitation. It is an invitation letter printed by a newcomer to be married. Because the invitation card is red, it usually costs money to receive an invitation, so it is commonly called a "red bomb." It is called Wedding Invitation in English.

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What is the most important incident you have about wedding red envelopes? In addition to the "red bar," what else do you have to do? Welcome to @hi Metropolis Daily and let us spit on your experiences and share your good ideas.

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Changsha "red envelopes" are always high

@ Yiyi Yangliufeng and Xiaotang want to know, in Changsha, how much does the red envelope hit? In response, the reporter randomly interviewed 20 citizens from all walks of life.

Aunt Liu said that in the 1980s, when we got married, we sent some household items such as kettles and blankets. In the early 90's, only gifts were received and only 5 or 10 pieces began. At the end of the last century, it rose to around 50 bucks, but now it usually costs several hundred bucks.

“Different circles have different gifts.” Houge is a native of “Old Changsha.” He said that the average co-worker’s relationship is 200 yuan, and especially close ones will give more, but only more than 1,000 yuan. “Some places have to live 666 for birthdays and 999 for marriages. Some don’t send 300, 400, and 700, and some pay attention to red events to send even numbers.” Hou Ge said that the gifts are different.

"Wedding red bar" does not applaud

In the face of the "red bomb", some netizens proposed the idea of ​​"marriage red." If you wish to write a blessing on a red paper, you can put it in a red envelope as a "gift money," and you can even write the words "With this red banner, you can attend your wedding party for free." The "red wedding bar" has become a hot-button "discussion" trick.

In real life, this move is not so popular online. In an interview, the reporter found that the 20 people interviewed said that they would not use the "red bar" to deal with the "bomb". They all feel that sending red bars is not as good as sending them. Do not send red envelopes, many friends feel that you do not understand the human world, send red bars, but it seems particularly stingy.

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